tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9130750.post3143887967363009180..comments2024-01-11T20:26:57.109+01:00Comments on Archaeogoddess: I need more than 30 minutes a dayArchaeogoddesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09305683483488880519noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9130750.post-10877911783409365752011-07-30T01:04:41.193+02:002011-07-30T01:04:41.193+02:00You know, for all that shared custody sucks someti...You know, for all that shared custody sucks sometimes, that first hour after she's been whisked away by her father is sheer bliss. It's quiet, I am alone with my thoughts...it's awesome!<br /><br />While I don't recommend shared custody in your case, obviously, but I do love the idea of "Mommy time" and "Daddy time." It's a hard balancing act, and easy to say he should be the responsible parent the second he walks in the door (my cousin has this issue too because she's home with the kids and he works) but he needs time to unwind, too. Blurgh....marriage and parenthood is hard, yo!Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02432041328889618278noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9130750.post-49985992859882325992011-07-27T09:24:03.717+02:002011-07-27T09:24:03.717+02:00Yeah... the break helps.. and after getting the br...Yeah... the break helps.. and after getting the breather, you can't WAIT to see the kid, again. You might suggest it as a daily (or every-other-daily activity).Verlizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16056479492420966420noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9130750.post-33428828609654942012011-07-27T00:16:19.206+02:002011-07-27T00:16:19.206+02:00V - great idea! Today they went for a walk. I wa...V - great idea! Today they went for a walk. I was all "you, here, baby, now get out!" and they went. And I made a salad to go with dinner and even managed to do Monday's crossword puzzle. Bliss!Archaeogoddesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09305683483488880519noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9130750.post-87245231911617961512011-07-26T21:20:55.681+02:002011-07-26T21:20:55.681+02:00What ever works :) Keep on keeping on!What ever works :) Keep on keeping on!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9130750.post-51254963042006465852011-07-26T18:56:51.327+02:002011-07-26T18:56:51.327+02:00Hee hee! Brings back memories of my own little spa...Hee hee! Brings back memories of my own little spawn and my own Danish Boy. He 'solved' that problem by giving me "personal time". Ideally, it should have been me just having an-hour-not-having-to-think-about-the-baby, but since he sucked at entertaining, their "daily walk" began when my son was about 2-3 months old. Even now (3 yrs later), that's the definition of "personal time", and whatever I do with my "personal time" (whether it's finishing up the cooking, washing up the dishes, cleaning the house, playing PS games or reading a book), is totally up to me. The flip side is that HE would also get "personal time".<br /><br />You could try suggesting it to your Danish Boy.Verlizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16056479492420966420noreply@blogger.com